She's the powerhouse who brought you into this world {one way or another}. The person who came running every SINGLE time you chimed: "Mommmyyyyyy! Can you wipe my bum?" Not to mention the many years prior when you couldn't exactly say it, but your saggy bottomed diaper rendered it quite unnecessary to vocalize. She made your meals, cleaned your house, washed your stank @$$ laundry (no offence) chauffeured you here, there and around the square, worked (and perhaps is still working!) her buns off to pay for it all... and she loves you more than you may ever know. Whether she birthed you, raised you or BOTH! She's the woman who selflessly put(s) your needs ahead of her own, sacrificed her body, her sleep, her money, maybe even some of her dreams so that you could live yours. On the list of people you are eternally indebted to in this life, more than likely she is very top of the list - and if she's not, chances are she should be. If you are fortunate enough to have your mother here on planet earth with you, you need to stop what you are doing right this very second and formulate a plan for Mother's Day. (And if she's not here, I am truly very sorry.) I am not preaching at you... I promise I am right there with you, and I am concocting my very own plan as I type this.
Here's the thing. We all know many people who have lost their mother. I know if I asked any single one of them, they would likely tell me that they would give absolutely anything to have her alive and well, here with them. They won't have another opportunity to tell their mama just how much they appreciate her and the sacrifices she's made -- but for those of us who are blessed with that opportunity -- we mustn't overlook it. Sometimes we take the people we love the most for granted. We forget that they won't be around forever, and assume that they know just how much we value and treasure them. Well, let me tell you. We can never, ever, EVER tell the people we love, that we love them too much! Not only "tell" but "show." Yes. Time to reawaken our Elementary school selves and get our SHOW + TELL on. Your mom is the woman you definitely need to NOT forget this May. I know. You appreciate her. I know. You don't need a silly holiday to dictate when you should express just how grateful you are. And I KNOW that $h!t happens, and sometimes you drop the ball on said occasions. I know, because despite my very best intentions, so have I. But alas, just because you have dropped the ball in the past, it doesn't mean you can't redeem yourself! Oh, and one more thing. If you happen to have a beautiful lady in your life who is also a mama... not necessarily YOUR mama, but you know, say, the mother of your child/children? It would be a beautiful gesture to do a little something to make the day special for her too. The choice is yours. But if I were you, I would opt to contribute to her bliss, as opposed to her tears. Preferably something with a hint of thought or meaning. Whether we like it or not, we live in a world where people will be broadcasting their Mother's Day bliss on social media. It's just what people do. It may seem ridiculous, that any measure of our happiness comes in the form of comparison -- but the cold, hard truth is -- it sometimes does. She likely won't tell you, or even show it. But the truth is, she will be sad if you don't do SOMETHING.
If you would like to give a gift that she will truly value, the gift of photography is beyond priceless. Whether it's through yours truly, or another company that tickles your fancy - I would highly recommend it. Gift certificates are available in any denomination here at Legacy Junction™. These will be beautifully presented, a timeless, meaningful gift you will feel good about giving. Simply fire me an e-mail for more information. Far too often mama's are found behind the lens taking the photos, or hiding from the camera, which makes beautiful images of them with their families sometimes rare. If you want to knock it out of the park - you can't go wrong with a photo session. The other thing I can help you with is creating a gorgeous, heartfelt greeting card that she will adore. Check out the post below this one for details!
"The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago.
The second best time is now."
- Chinese Proverb
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